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"What we find outside ourselves has to be inside ourselves for us to find it." -Pico Iyer, "Why We Travel" For the past six weeks, the students of Loyola's Cagli Program have kept travel journals of their experiences as they immersed themselves in a new culture and project. Here, we have gathered excerpts of their writing.
June 4, 2002 -Dierdre Mullins
“Would you like Renaissance, Baroque, or Medieval? We also have Baroque light, heavy Renaissance, and refurbished Medieval.” In a tour of Cagli, we visited 3 of the many churches in Cagli. The first question to come to my mind was why would a small town like Cagli need 3 churches, as the thought crossed my mind, I heard someone remark that there were more than 12 churches in and around Cagli. For such a small population, I could not see the need for 3 churches, and especially not 12. How did one pick which church he went to; does he base it on decoration, style of artwork, it’s capacity, the time of its services or maybe its vicinity to the person’s house? -Meghan Devine
No one seems bothered that I came to sit in the spot that seems off limits to anyone with less than 60 years of experience under their belt. You can see everything and everyone from here; the old women slowly getting to where they need to be in the calf-length skirts and their identical shawls. The small transactions and conversations that last 2 minutes just because that’s the way it’s been for hundreds of years prior. Sitting 20 feet to the left of me is the group of elders that I think I exiled from their tradition. They don’t seem bothered and they won’t ask me to move. They sit in a single line, parallel to everything ongoing and aware of every step taken in their piazza. - Bob Buhowski
Five minutes of staring at pictures of half and fully naked women pinned on the wall was enough time for Giovanni to make my hair the best it has ever looked. He was ready to shave me, but I wasn’t exactly ready for him to approach my neck with a blade. The initial anxiety faded and he trimmed everything needing trimming and oiled my face up. He lathered my face with his little brush that must have touched many generations of Italian’s faces before mine, an unworthy outsider looking for a few experiences. I trusted Giovanni completely at this point. He approached me with the blade and took the first slice of lather and stubble with him. It felt amazing. He graciously guided the blade around what wasn’t getting out with such speed and fluidity – I’ve never seen anything like it. When everything was complete, he wrote down the price and treated me like an American that didn’t understand him…which I was. Exiting, I saw many Americans, perhaps too many for my newly local shave and haircut, but compliments were shared and life was, and still is, good. -Bob Buhowski
He uses only hand movements, and points from my almost-filled clothesline to his empty one next to a hammock nestled in his patch of greenery. I smile and nod, pointing in his direction and making awkward hand movements of my own. Once he realizes that I understand his kind offer, he smiles and waves as he disappears below my balcony. Later today, after figuring out how to wash my clothes and successfully laundering half of the pile resting in a corner of my bedroom, I settled down on the couch with a book. Glancing outside the glass door, I noticed another old man, this one with a shiny bald head and glasses, relaxing on his identical porch across the street and enjoying the darkening skies and cool breeze. He looked so content that I decided to walk out on to my porch and call my parents. While explaining to them the reasons I haven’t called in a week, the bald man smiles and waves from across the street. “Ciao!” I called, and he replied with the common phrase. On the other end of the phone call, thousands of miles away, my dad said, “Huh?” After I told him that I was saying hello to a neighbor “I have never met, we began talking about the friendliness of the Cagliesi people. Coming from a somewhat snobby suburb in New Jersey, I (and my dad, who seemed dumbfounded by my neighbor anecdotes), am not very used to this type of small-town, neighborly friendliness. My house is #16 at home, and I don’t even know the last names of the people who live and have lived at #14. If I happen to get my mail at the same time as Mr. #14, I’ll wave, but friendly conversation is not common in North Caldwell. My hometown has about the same population as Cagli and only occupies one square mile of New Jersey; however, walking down the via in Cagli is a more pleasant experience than in my small town. Here, the townspeople never pretend they are better than you, or base their ideas around money. It is a drastic change that I completely welcome. The Cagli lifestyle and friendly atmosphere could teach my frenzied, money-hungry hometown a few things about common hospitality and simple living. I know I will bring these ideas with me to the U.S.A. and hopefully Mr. #14 will respond when I ask him how his day is when we happen to retrieve our mail at the same time one day in July. -Diana Richardson |